?? Do you feel like you are struggling to figure out what it is you want? 
?? Are you finding you want more for yourself and yet you have no idea what that might be? 
?? Do you feel if you could be dipped into a pool of water and pulled back out, releasing all the gunk and stuckness, you'd know more and have clarity of what to do?

Here's your sign --> ACTIVATION -- several years ago I discovered a gift of mine in that I can support others in bringing them back in alignment with their souls purpose and found their passion, getting the from stuck to unstoppable. 

Does this sound like something you desire?

Then you are ready and cannot lose by investing in 1-hour of your time to have an experience like never before.

Being supported and guided during this offer is how you'll find your way back to what lights you up, gives you direction, and shows you the next steps to take to move from stuck to unstoppable.

Ready? Here you go.......

A Clear Vision


The magic of being up at 4 am because my vision is so clear it makes me jump out of bed in the mornings knowing my service to others is potent and powerful and deeply fulfilling. 

Supporting others on their journey, allowing them to believe in themselves, and teaching them the magic in releasing the past to create the future through their thoughts and conscious language —priceless. 

I challenge you to find what lights you up and start your day by jumping out of bed with drive and happiness! 💞

You're Invited to My Online Webinar!

I’m so excited! I’m hosting an online webinar Nov. 11 from 1-2pm that will be available to those who register. A link for the live event will be sent prior to going live (click here to get more details!). A replay is also available but only to those who register. If you have been thinking how in the world have I gotten to this place in my life -- and don't know what to do next. Then this event is for YOU. Find whats holding you back, keeping you stuck, and identify what needs to happen to move past the stuckness into your full potential of unstoppable. Enough said -- see you soon <3


Trust the Process


May this be a gentle reminder to those who are worried, stressed, or anxious. Everything is working out in your highest and best good. Trust the process and believe it is already done. 

Start now and see the result you desire in your minds eye. Just like you did when you were a child and imagined what life would be like —all good things, right!?!

And if you aren’t able to see the goodness and want a nudge then reach out to me. I’m here and would be honored to speak with you. 

The time is now! 💜🧡💜
Message me 💫

Building Your Foundation

This photo reminds me how we build our businesses. Starting with a large foundation is key and takes time and patience. Often, though, a foundation is the strong, deep and UNSEEN part of the structure. Think about that.

We usually envision what we want the building to look like, but rarely do we think of what the foundation will need to be, look like or how much work will go into it. But a strong foundation is essential for a strong building. Once it's there, then the only way to grow is up. 

For me, relationships with others builds a solid foundation. Everyone likes to be heard, valued, supported, and encouraged - including me. Build your relationships - then build your business! Click here if you’d like to connect.


The Mystical Playing Field

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I can barely sit still to watch the Bengals football game.
Why — not because of the game itself but because as I am setting here with so much content downloading in my mind right now! 
Why— because I set my intention during the new moon to be open to receive what’s next for my life and how I will be showing up to support, mentor, and teach others on their journey to love, joy, happiness, along with abundance, prosperity, and bliss —and it is coming fast and furiously with ideas, opportunity, and a solid plan. 
Yes! All of this is what I’ve created and continue to create in my life based on my passion for life, living with purpose, and setting intentions that meet my desires. So of course I want to mentor, coach, and teach others this magical formula for living beyond their current mindset, lack of motivation and long desire for change and transformation. 

I’ll leave you with this —Life is just grand and I am always in gratitude to be apart of this mystical playing field. If I can help you reach out. 
Happy Sunday. 💐

Psst — Can you feel the energy? Is this how you feel about your life? 🤔

Off to Boston!


🎶 I’m leaving on a jet plane ✈️ to Boston!! 

I just had to share this information with you. Recently I had set the intention that I would be traveling and being able to share my message with others. In addition I was looking at my branding for my upcoming launch for my speaking and workshop programs and wanted to have some professional photos taken. 

Well as the universe would have it, and out of the blue, I am invited to a very special, interment women’s mastermind collaborative being held in Boston this weekend. 

In addition the bonus part of going is a a professional photoshoot including hair and makeup. 

Thank You Universe for rising up to meet me.

When you find yourself in a place of the higher vibration, and believing and trusting in the process, you are able to manifest. 

When I learned about the law of attraction and manifestation many years ago at first I was a skeptic. But then I soon realized that I actually have been manifesting all of my life. 

Anytime I desired something at the heart space level it was something that I could create in my own reality.

From selling the stationary at the age of 10 years old to get my products for free, to going back to School at the age of 30 to earn my teaching degree, to owning and operating two golf courses, to discovering my passion for helping others to go from stuck to unstoppable.

This weekend is going to include a lot of up leveling not only for myself, and for what I will be offering in my services as we move through the remaining part of 2018 and get ready for the big expansion year in 2019.

So I’m curious what would you like to learn? What would you like call in for your life? How would you like to be supported finishing out 2018 and moving into 2019?

This is the work I am passionate about and am honored to be support to individuals as well as groups, and now being called upon for motional speaking engagements. Hell Yes!! 💞

Think about what’s next for you and if you need support let me know. Keep following. Cannot wait to share the outcome of my trip to Boston. Here’s to new beginnings 🥂.

Just Breathe


Take a moment and breathe. Really breathe. We are constantly in a state of mind of what’s next. Thinking how we can make more money, find a better job, be more in love, look a better way, while time keeps accelerating and we find ourselves right where we were months, years, decades prior. 

And why? Is this our life to be stuck in our situation and circumstance trying to make it out to something more? Have we become content with the status quo? What will it take to break free of the stuckness and find the drive to be unstoppable?  

Really. When you pause for that breathe be ready to call in change, new direction, hope so up until now you know what you desire and will start today letting go of the story of the past and start creating the dream life you’ve always desired. 

And if you’re not sure how to do this — I’m here for you! My passion and purpose is supporting others in their way to transformation. Let connect.

Redesign Your Reality

Self Talk — the most powerful tool in the game of life. How are you choosing to speak to and about yourself? 

Pay attention. You might be surprised of the negative words and thoughts you speak about yourself that are creating more of what you don’t want. 

....I’m saying this because I just had an ah-ha in how much my self talk has been negative! 

More about this on Tune Up Thursday when we talk about this reality.


Embracing the Unknown


“If you don’t fear the unknown, the unknown will be kind to you!”

How often do you find yourself paralyzed in fear?

When does the unknowingness take hold and keep you stuck where you are?

How has fear been running your life?

I see this a lot with others and in myself —The fear of the unknown. 

On my journey, fear was presented early on in my childhood. As children we do tend to fear things based on what we are taught. And until we can determine otherwise, we hold onto that fear belief until we discover and understanding why we are fearful in the first place. 

When we can understand we have a choice whether to hold onto the fear of the unknown, or just let it go, we create a powerful belief of not having to live in fear because we can trust the unknown will be kind. 

I can remember as a young child and into my early teenage years I was petrified of thunderstorms to the point where I would have to go into my sisters room and sleep or just be paralyzed in fear, going in the corner of a room and crying waiting for the storm to pass.

What caused me to have fear around the storms? 

I’m not exactly certain but I believe it’s what I perceived about the thunderstorms and the noise they made believing the earth was “blowing up”. 

So in time, I released that fear knowing that I had no control over the thunderstorms. That nothing bad was going to happen to me and that it was just noise. 

As I begin to release that fear, I was able to start hearing the musical part of the thunderstorm, along with the brilliant light show it would display, and then the sound of the rain drops, whether they be small or large, as they dropped upon the the windowsill I feel peace. 

And so from that place of fear, and letting go, there’s a shift that occurs allowing you to take hold and understand that fear is simply a choice.

As you move forward in your life think of those things that cause you fear stay curious to how they’re keeping you stuck in your current situation or circumstance. And just ask yourself what if I no longer feared the unknown?

From there fully embrace the unknown, not in fear, but with hope, and letting it be kind to you.

Finding a Mentor


Looking for the answers? Wanting to learn how to navigate your current situation or circumstances? Desiring to have, be and do all that your heart longs for? 

You can —and you will — if you choose to. 

Hi, I’m Melissa. A women who found her way in life using her own DRIVE. Learning this valuable techniques and sharing it with others, I discovered my experiences in life that were much challenging, game chaining, and hard were no different then what others were experiencing. 

After working with a coach/mentor I discovered ways to bounce back, find new ways, and live my life my way. Calling in the joy during my set backs and happiness from the stumbling blocks. Overcoming the fear, shame, doubt and sadness to love, gratitude, joy and happiness. 

Several years ago, I began sharing and coaching others on using techniques that unlock what keeps us stuck. Teaching and mentoring has always been my passion in life and now I am able to change perspectives, open hearts, and support others to live from a place of joy and happiness. 

Are you ready to start your journey —to let go of what holds you back and find your own DRIVE to go from stuck to unstoppable?

I think you are! Seeing and reading this message is your sign! It’s time my friend. Your life is your gift. Let me support you in making it shine 💫

When the Student is Ready, the Teacher Appears

It’s Wednesday and I must say it’s another amazing day to be alive! My journey over the past 20 months has had a host of ups, downs, losses and battle scars AND yet I’m still going —growing and expanding from my life lessons and being able to support and coach others along their journey. I’ve connected with people who challenge me, support me, and love me unconditionally. 

This message below was posted by a client who just signed on with me for a six-month coaching package. She said she posted this before she reached out to me! This client is someone I’ve known for several years and now we will be working together. As the saying goes when the student is ready the teacher appears. She was ready! And I appeared. 😊

Are you ready? When you read the passage below do you want that for your life? Are you wanting to find the magic in life that has seemed to vanished? Are you ready to go from “stuck to unstoppable”? Then let’s connect. I have just what your heart desires and am ready to be of service. 

Have an amazing day 💞



Welcome November!

Welcome November! We're already a week into this magical month.  It signifies, for me, the beginning of the holidays and the time for reflection and planning for the New Year.

It also brings about the worries of lack and not enough.  Often as the days are shorter and the nights are longer a bit of sadness and loneliness may set in. 

I have found that I do a lot of reading during this time of year.  I want to open my mind to possibilities and amp up my vibration (energy) to keep focused and driving towards the next big thing. Reading gives me time to receive messages that I may have overlooked and ideas that will move me forward.    

Several years ago I was presented with the book "Think and Grow Rich!"  At first, the title wasn’t something that resonated with me as a possibility – more like never a possibility. 

How can one think and grow rich? I’ve done that all my life and I’m still broke!

Then I found the book kept grabbing my attention so I decided to give it a read.

Randomly opening up the book I found the story “Three Feet From Gold” and began to read.  Whoa! This resonated with me so much.  I started to wonder how many times I was in that same scenario? What have I given up on way before I should have?

So I am sharing with you today the PDF of Napoleon Hill's - Think and Grow Rich. (You can also YouTube and have the audio version). You can download the PDF of the book here! The story Three Feet From Gold (pg 22) offers a big shift in mindset.

I hope you'll take a moment and read that story – and see what comes up for you.  I believe it may just change your mindset tremendously, opening you up to endless possibilities around money!

And of course find time to read the entire book because it always offers more insights and mindfulness. I pick it up often and randomly open to find the message I need for that day. Hell, the title alone gives me great inspiration!

Want to dive deeper into Mindfulness? Grab my 21 Day to Body Mindfulness email program hereGive yourself the gift of seeing things with a new perspective and find your own DRIVE leading into the holiday’s and New Year!


Mindfulness is a word that has been showing up lately in the coaching/mentoring arena.  Because of this, I wanted to share a message from one of the emails that speaks specifically to “mindfulness” from my “21 Day to Body Mindfulness” email program. 
Let's start with Google’s definition for Mindfulness:
Mindfulness is a state of active, open attention on the present. When you're mindful, you observe your thoughts and feelings from a distance, without judging them good or bad. Instead of letting your life pass you by, mindfulness means living in the moment and awakening to experience.
What a beautiful definition and a gentle reminder of how we often go unconscious to our lives, with a robotic routine that keeps us from day-to-day experiences that are magical and go unnoticed. With hectic career and family demands, we find ourselves going from one task to the next but not noticing what is taking place in that moment. 

I have found when I really slow down and live in the moment (not yesterday’s argument or tonight’s dinner plans) I experience a sense of awareness that offers groundedness where I can be my best self! And isn’t that what we truly want the world to see?!

Today, I am inviting you to be mindful.  Notice what’s going on around you; colors, smells, objects, animals, the sky, the ground, people… really everything. Just notice. Even the dirty windshield on your car needs to be noticed... without any judgment please! ;-)

It all has meaning as you will soon discover throughout our time together. All of this awareness is allowing you to open and receive the beauty that surrounds you and is within YOU! Pay attention and always have fun!

Ready to Play? Let’s go…
For today, I invite you to really look at people’s faces; their eyes, mouth, facial expressions. Notice if they are smiling, frowning, sad, happy, or unable to give you eye contact.  Then offer them your biggest and brightest smile with eye contact and see what happens.
If this email has sparked your interest and you want to learn more, I recommend joining the 21 Day Body Mindfulness program HERE!

How to Discover Your Desire!

This came up in our group challenge and I felt it would be helpful to share here. 
When we think of what we desire, we want it ALL, right?! Money, time, perfect career, loving relationships, travel, peace, joy, slimmer body, etc. 
I have discovered that deciding where to focus your DRIVE for change is found by allowing yourself to consider what would have the biggest impact on your life. Perhaps it will change other circumstances that exist that you would like to change as well.
Here's one of my biggest transformations in 2014 that changed (and saved) my life.
I knew that things were not going as I desired in my life. There was lack of happiness and a feeling of being lost on my journey. 
I had done all the gold stars and check marks. I was living an abundant life. However, there was just a feeling of something missing. My heart was longing for more!
In a journal entry, I wrote all the things that were bothering me most; wanting to run our family business at an optimal success level, for me to take back control over my health to live longer and have more energy, and to eliminate the use of alcohol on a daily basis.
Of these three things drinking was what jumped off the page. 
Why? I realized in that moment that drinking had the biggest hold on my life! The smoking, over-eating, spending money, not running a profitable business, etc., where all just a by-product of my drinking. (Gulp!)
Now having this awareness, I set the intention to stop the drinking because I knew that was the BIGGEST, most sabotaging element in my life that controlled everything. I knew releasing the alcohol would release the other unfavorable behaviors AND allow for everything else to turn around. 
And it has! Releasing an addiction doesn't have to be hard, it just needs to come from a place of "why" for yourself. Once you lock into that desire and believe it to be true, no one or thing will knock you off course. Your desired outcome will become stronger than any excuse you can tell!
Why? Because when you become aware of what you desire (no more going numb and hiding out from life) you gain the ability to SEE and FEEL what you want and desire… and so it is!
If this has brought up questions for yourself, I'd love the opportunity to spend 30 minutes on a call with you. Just reply to this post or use my scheduler to plan a time. Asking for support is the first step in making changes and allowing for healing in your own life. I'm here in service and hold everything sacred and in confidence. 
Isn't it time to let go and start creating more of what you desire in your life?  

Just Ask for Support

This morning I was feeling a bit down. Coming off of a high vibration from making things happen, but this morning it caught up with me. I felt drained.

How can I keep doing this level of work that I'm doing and still keep myself motivated?

I'm familiar with this feeling so I knew it be best to reach out to my coach and ask for support!

Her recommendation was to make a list of those things I've recently accomplished to see how much "work" I have been doing in such a short amount of time.

She offered this as a starter:

"Lady, you are literally right there at the place you are going! You just need to finish it! You have this challenge all set and ready to go, you have YMCA dates set, you have collaborations with the college, and you are getting ready to put in place the consignment shop. What else? You have this book launching in 3 days in addition to the one you've already written. Take stock in all your accomplishments. This challenge and helping direct sales people shift their perspective is fabulous. Run with it!"

Holy Wow! BIG Shift!

I am “getting shit done” (as she likes to say), and having her reflect back on my accomplishments from this month alone revitalized me: spirit and soul!  I felt the shift and found I am now at even a higher vibration than before.

All because I ASKED for support and am open to RECEIVE it.

As I continue to learn and tap into what I need I’m discovering that seeking support is key.  Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want even if it feels uncomfortable.  Trust that on the other side you’ll find joy.

Where do you need support? What would you ask if you had a coach who is there to offer guidance? Don’t have a coach? You are in luck.

Today’s discover has nudged me to offer YOU, a subscriber of Find Your Own DRIVE, a gift of a 1-Hour Power Session!

You read that right! My own personal lesson for today of “asking for support” is now giving you the “pay it forward” gift of a FREE 1-Hour Power Session!

A Power Session is where you can openly ask the questions you want to understand, unravel, or eliminate completely, whether it is job, family, personal development, anything! I’m here for YOU.

Simply reply to this post with YES! and we will get you set up on a day/time that works best for you.  I will only be gifting these sessions until September 15, 2016, so be sure to claim your spot.

Can't wait to hear from you!